Do you have anyone who doesn’t like you so much at work or other places?
Do you think that everyone likes you at work or other places?
What do you think about those?
What if I say that those are related to your happiness, success, and your life and also a very important factor?
It is actually true.
For example, you expect that you will not be accepted when you believe that people dislike you.
In that case, you may believe that you will be easily rejected or no one will listen to you.
Human nature avoids rejection and pain. We are programmed to avoid pain so we may decide not to make a move or speak out when we believe that we are going to be rejected.
If you have a remarkable idea, you may still think that your idea (you) will be rejected.
In that case, you may procrastinate to speak out your remarkable idea day by day.
It may pass years in this kind of procrastination.
If you push yourself and speak out, you may easily stop proceeding when something happens to discourage you in pursuit.
It’s unfortunate that you are not going to be noticed or listened to or even successful even when you have remarkable talents and abilities.
Instead, if you believe that you are going to be liked, listened and accepted where ever you go. In that case, you will tell everyone when you have a great idea.
When there is a difficulty in the proceeding, you wouldn’t quit it easily.
For example, it is like imagining that you are a diamond.
I use this kind of setting in my therapy sometimes.
You can easily imagine that you are going to be accepted with big applause when you are a diamond.
You can always hear;
“I’m really happy to see you! It is so wonderful finally to see you!”
When you are a diamond, those comments are usual to have.
First of all, you will never think of possible rejection when you are a diamond.
However, even diamonds cannot be liked by everyone.
And those people are strange that they don’t like diamonds.
Probably, it is because of jealousy when someone doesn’t like diamonds.
When you feel like you are a diamond, you won’t care about people who don’t like you because those people are just jealous of you.
This is about real self-esteem.
It is wonderful to have true self-esteem; feeling like a diamond.
We can have this kind of self-esteem!
Hypnotherapy is very effective in changing your self-esteem.
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